Silence – Part 1

 “We need to find God, and He cannot be found in noise and restlessness.  God is the friend of silence.  See how nature – trees, flowers, grass – grows in silence: see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence… We need silence to be able to touch souls.”

Mother Teresa

Nature's Quiet Beauty

Nature’s Quiet Beauty

I’ve previously mentioned my conversion from New Year’s Resolutions to New Year’s Goals to the My One Word Revolution that began last year when I chose the word “Grace.”  The idea behind choosing one word is to pray about a word God leads you to by keeping in mind the kind of person you want to become and the characteristics that kind of person possesses.  If several words come to mind, choose just one that encapsulates them all the best.

Desiring to become better in an area of life that has plagued us in the past is a good thing.  However, when I made New Year’s Resolutions to change said areas, it was a rare occasion that I made it through January without “blowing it.”  And once I blew it, life reverted back to the comfortable, well-worn path of old behaviors, with the feeling of failure added to the mix.

Choosing one word to focus on, knowing I can start over at any time during the year, the month, or even the day, and start over as many times as is required, cements characteristic changes into place.  Even cement can crack, however, so a full year to practice living the principles surrounding the word God has led me to through prayer works perfectly.

2013 was a year I desired to explore Grace–living it, accepting it, and extending it to others.  I “blew it” numerous times over the course of the year, but that word, one that is pure and pleasing to God, remained engraved on my mind and in my heart, so that when I strayed from living through grace, it reminded me to do an about face and turn it around, doing whatever was needed to correct the behavior.  While I’m far from having perfecting living through and extending grace to others, I’m much better than I was when I started, and I’m okay with that.  Because for me it’s all about progress, not perfection.

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Another component of the movement that I’ve incorporated as well includes choosing a bible verse that correspond to the chosen word.  I chose two last year and again this year.  Rehearsing the verses daily brings clarity and focus daily on the one chosen word.  I create cards on my computer with my one word as well as the chosen bible verses, in a fun and colorful font, and keep one at my desk at work, one by my bed to read first thing in the morning and last thing in the evening, and one in my car.

It’s much easier to focus on one word that signifies who I want to become than try to remember a list of resolutions to change things I want to leave behind.

If you make the choice to join the movement, or if you’ve been participating already, I would love to hear the word you’ve chosen for 2014, and why.

Wishing you all a safe and blessed New Year filled with His presence and peace.

4 thoughts on “Silence – Part 1

  1. This couldn’t have come at a better time as we are embroiled in a legal battle to get a security deposit returned from a very unethical land (slum) lord. Staying the course is hard for me as I really do not like conflict of this sort but for too many years I have allowed shady property owners to retain my deposits and this time I just had enough and determined through contemplation that I needed to take this action. I’ve run into snags and snafus in all areas for months and feel tired – as I was reading this I felt the word Open arise. Open to letting God move the mountains of my negative thoughts and desire to give up too quickly in the face of tyranny. Open to letting circumstances and events change around me and put my focus on staying centered in the chaos rather than being knocked around by the waves. Open to trusting the outcomes to problematic things is what is right for me even if I don’t understand it all at the time and even if it looks “bad” on the surface or isn’t necessarily what I wanted – the truth is that all I really want is Love and that is available to me any time I choose to be in Silence and repeat my word “Open”. Thank you for this post – my New Year’s Eve will be much nicer now as I was in quite a tizzy when I opened the email for this post!

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    • Michelle,
      Thank you for sharing! It’s amazing the transformation that can occur when we allow God to work through us. I hope you had a beautiful New Year’s Eve. 🙂

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