Women’s History Month Spotlight – JK Rowling

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JK Rowling offers hope to aspiring writers and is proof that it doesn’t take money to make your dreams come true. It simply takes passion, perseverance, and persistence.

At one point, prior to the success of the Harry Potter series, JK Rowling found herself in a deep depression, divorced and with a baby daughter to support, no job, and living on unemployment. Those are some huge obstacles to overcome!

In her writing life, not only was Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone rejected 12 times, J.K. Rowling was told not to quit her day job. Ouch! I can only imagine how those who rejected Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone must kick themselves daily for by-passing such a masterpiece.  Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone was penned in cafes while JK Rowling and her daughter survived on benefits.

It is our choices… that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.  -J. K. Rowling

Now not only is she one of the top women authors of all time, Rowling was named the “Most Influential Woman in Britain” in October 2010. Now that, my friends, is success. Taking lemons and making lemonade. What a true inspiration to women and writers everywhere.

Never give up

 

The Rainbow After the Rain

This morning as I was doing my “prayer and meditation time,” finally feeling better after having a flu bug that knocked me down harder than I can ever remember, I thought about something my sweet grandma said I told her numerous times years ago.

“Grandma, I like getting tummy aches ’cause it feels so good when they go away.”

She said she thought it was so funny when I said that.

However, maybe I was on to something at that young age, with that sentiment that was difficult for grandma to understand.

It’s not by avoiding the difficulties that we get to see the joy, but by going through them. By embracing them even.

My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. (James 1:2)

Going through the pain of losing loved ones has led me to a greater appreciation for the people who are still in my life.

Going through the devastation of suicide with a boyfriend years ago and with my stepdaughter later has led me to an empathy for others experiencing that devastation, enabling me to shine a light so they, too, can get through that very black space of so many questions and so much guilt.

Going through the process of healing after being sexually assaulted by a stranger at the young age of 18, working my way through the fear and turmoil that followed me for years, the PTSD, has given me the aptitude to help other victims of crime along that dark, lonely path. The path that only a survivor can possibly understand and give hope to the still suffering that there is light at the end of that tunnel.

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At the risk of sounding cliché, it’s not until after the rain and the cracks of thunder, frightening bolts of lightning, that we can see the incredible rainbow that brings peace and awe.

While I wouldn’t count it joy while in the midst of those dark times, the fact that there was joy in my life afterward is nothing short of miraculous. Those trials have led me to a closer relationship with my God. My Savior–literally. Left to my own, I would not have survived, but He carried me through those troubling times. Like the footprints in the sand poem.

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I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. (Philippians 4:13)

And today? I’m so thankful I’m feeling better and embrace this day with renewed energy and passion for health.

Peace, my friends. Have a beautiful day.